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Executive Presence & Public Speaking Coach

Hi, I’m Aliya.

For over 9 years, I’ve helped leaders, executives, founders and corporate teams build confidence, improve communication skills and develop executive presence through coaching, workshops and training programmes across the UK and UAE.

Whether you’re looking to improve your public speaking, presentation skills, leadership communication or professional confidence, I provide practical tools and tailored support to help you communicate with greater impact and influence.

 

 

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Speaking and training topics include:

  • Developing Executive Presence
  • Become a Confident and Engaging Speaker
  • Building Confidence at Work
  • Letting Go of the Old & Making Room for the New: a self-empowerment and stress management workshop
  • Public Speaking and Presentation Skills

Originally from London, UK and now living in Dubai, I am a qualified life coach, health coach, and certified NLP Practitioner, speaker, trainer and podcast host. I studied Biomedical Science as my undergraduate degree and then completed my Master’s in Public Health at King’s College London. I quickly worked my way up the career ladder, being promoted after 6 months of starting my public health career, and then another 6 months after that, landing a role as a Senior member of my team in a national organisation aged 24. Although on paper I had my dream job, one that I had studied and worked so hard for, I couldn’t help but feel like something was missing.

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Success Stories

Life coaching changed my life and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. I was at a point in my life where I felt stuck and wanted things to change. After working with Aliya I realised that it wasn’t as difficult as I thought it would be. I just had to take the first step and do it and once I did everything started to move smoothly in my life. I have learnt how to overcome challenges without pressure and deal with situations more easily and in a more positive way. 

I have seen so much growth within myself as a result of coaching and I am no longer holding myself back from doing what I want to do, and the areas I’ve seen the biggest improvements in are self-love, self-growth and communication. Aliya also feels like a friend, not just a coach and I love how understanding and non-judgemental she is, and how she knows how to deal with each situation. She really looked into people and helps them both believe in themselves and bring out the real person that’s within them. 

Fahima

Manager at DP World, First Female Emirati boxer

I attended Aliya’s workshop on “How to Become a More Confident Speaker”.  Aliya is a fantastic trainer and very personable. The training session was a roaring success, and I learnt a lot of key points that I shall use when speaking in public and at events.

 Thank you Aliya.

Robert

 Partner, HOD, International Arbitration & Litigation Lawyer

Are you ready to start doing things differently?

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Aliya | Executive Presence & Public Speaking Coach

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🎤 1:1 Coaching | NLP | Corporate Training 🌎 Dubai | London 💫 Ft Entrepreneur Middle East | Arabian Business ✉️ DM for enquiries
  • Yesterday, I had the pleasure of delivering my 5th virtual masterclass for the team at @wecasapro with this session focusing on developing self-confidence and building a strong professional presence.

We explored how to cultivate a confident mindset, communicate effectively with clients, manage expectations and navigate challenging situations with confidence and professionalism.

I’m looking forward to delivering our next session in December!

I’m currently working with a number of organisations with teams based across the world, delivering tailored virtual masterclasses focused on personal and professional development.

One of the things I really enjoy about these interactive sessions is being able to adapt the content to the unique needs and challenges of each team, ensuring participants walk away with practical tools they can apply in their day-to-day roles. 

If you’re looking to support your team’s confidence, communication skills or professional development, I’d love to explore how we could work together.

Drop me a message and let’s arrange a call 💫
  • A little note to my younger self 🤍you’re not always going to have it all figured out and that’s okay. There’ll be mistakes, challenges, times where you feel so lost but that’s okay.  You’ll always get back ok track, and come back to yourself.

I know it might be hard to see now, but feeling like a misfit and that you don’t quite belong anywhere is going to end up being one of your favourite qualities about yourself, I promise❤️

I hope that little me would be proud of who I am today 💫 

#youngerself #trend #littleme
  • Great conversations create great opportunities. ✨

Your ability to connect with others is one of the most valuable skills you can develop, both professionally and personally.

From initiating conversations with confidence to building rapport, asking better questions and connecting with different personalities, strong communication skills can open doors to meaningful relationships, greater collaboration and new career opportunities.

As an NLP Practitioner and Executive Presence Coach, I help professionals develop the confidence and communication skills to build stronger, more authentic connections.

Because being a great conversationalist isn’t about talking more. It’s about connecting better.

Want to become a more confident communicator? Let’s connect! 🤍
  • Very much looking forward to delivering a workshop in Poland next month! The theme of this year’s IFES is ‘Futureproof Your Personal Toolbox,’ where I’ll be running a session for the next generation of exhibition professionals on how to become confident speakers 🎤 

After learning how to make pastéis de nata in Porto a couple of months ago I am very excited to learn how to make croissants 🥐 in Poznan as part of one of the networking sessions!😆
  • Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
  • What a time to be alive 😍the big shoulders and huge hair need to make a comeback ASAP xo
  • Confidence isn’t linear, it goes up and down throughout life.

You’ve been promoted, have more responsibilities, you’re expected to lead a team and be more visible - suddenly you’re out of your comfort zone.

You go through a break up or divorce and the life you pictured for yourself shifts - your identity feels different and you’re finding your feet again.

You’ve had a baby and feel rusty going back to work. Things that once felt natural now require more confidence.

This is all completely normal and the good thing about confidence is a skill, it’s a muscle. And just like a muscle, the more you practise using it by speaking up, putting yourself forward, doing things that stretch you - the stronger it becomes.

If your confidence isn’t where it used to be, it doesn’t mean you’ve lost it, it might just be time to start building it again.

If this resonates and you’d like to build your confidence - personally, professionally, or both, send me a message to book a call and explore how we can work together. 💫
  • I thought it was time for a little re-introduction! 💫
  • Question: do you wake up in the morning and the first thing you do is scroll through emails, messages and social media?

If so, you’re bombarding your brain with so much information before you’ve even had a chance to open your eyes properly and you’re now suddenly in reactive mode - responding to everything you’re seeing, reading and your mind is going into overdrive😫

Starting your day like this only results in you feeling much more anxious, distracted and on edge throughout the day.

If your mind constantly has 100 tabs open, it becomes a lot harder to be fully present and mindful. This then shows up in your ability to thinking clearly, communicate more concisely and feel calm and collected, all of which play a huge role in how confident you feel.

Giving yourself at least 10 minutes for yourself in the morning before you start responding to the rest of the world really changes the way you feel day to day. I also like to think of it as an act of self-love❤️ and doing lots of little things for yourself throughout the day that tell yourself ‘I am worth looking after’ is also a fun way to gradually build your confidence and self-esteem🙂
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Yesterday, I had the pleasure of delivering my 5th virtual masterclass for the team at @wecasapro with this session focusing on developing self-confidence and building a strong professional presence.

We explored how to cultivate a confident mindset, communicate effectively with clients, manage expectations and navigate challenging situations with confidence and professionalism.

I’m looking forward to delivering our next session in December!

I’m currently working with a number of organisations with teams based across the world, delivering tailored virtual masterclasses focused on personal and professional development.

One of the things I really enjoy about these interactive sessions is being able to adapt the content to the unique needs and challenges of each team, ensuring participants walk away with practical tools they can apply in their day-to-day roles. 

If you’re looking to support your team’s confidence, communication skills or professional development, I’d love to explore how we could work together.

Drop me a message and let’s arrange a call 💫
@aliya.rajah_
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Yesterday, I had the pleasure of delivering my 5th virtual masterclass for the team at @wecasapro with this session focusing on developing self-confidence and building a strong professional presence. We explored how to cultivate a confident mindset, communicate effectively with clients, manage expectations and navigate challenging situations with confidence and professionalism. I’m looking forward to delivering our next session in December! I’m currently working with a number of organisations with teams based across the world, delivering tailored virtual masterclasses focused on personal and professional development. One of the things I really enjoy about these interactive sessions is being able to adapt the content to the unique needs and challenges of each team, ensuring participants walk away with practical tools they can apply in their day-to-day roles. If you’re looking to support your team’s confidence, communication skills or professional development, I’d love to explore how we could work together. Drop me a message and let’s arrange a call 💫
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A little note to my younger self 🤍you’re not always going to have it all figured out and that’s okay. There’ll be mistakes, challenges, times where you feel so lost but that’s okay. You’ll always get back ok track, and come back to yourself. I know it might be hard to see now, but feeling like a misfit and that you don’t quite belong anywhere is going to end up being one of your favourite qualities about yourself, I promise❤️ I hope that little me would be proud of who I am today 💫 #youngerself #trend #littleme
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Great conversations create great opportunities. ✨

Your ability to connect with others is one of the most valuable skills you can develop, both professionally and personally.

From initiating conversations with confidence to building rapport, asking better questions and connecting with different personalities, strong communication skills can open doors to meaningful relationships, greater collaboration and new career opportunities.

As an NLP Practitioner and Executive Presence Coach, I help professionals develop the confidence and communication skills to build stronger, more authentic connections.

Because being a great conversationalist isn’t about talking more. It’s about connecting better.

Want to become a more confident communicator? Let’s connect! 🤍
Great conversations create great opportunities. ✨

Your ability to connect with others is one of the most valuable skills you can develop, both professionally and personally.

From initiating conversations with confidence to building rapport, asking better questions and connecting with different personalities, strong communication skills can open doors to meaningful relationships, greater collaboration and new career opportunities.

As an NLP Practitioner and Executive Presence Coach, I help professionals develop the confidence and communication skills to build stronger, more authentic connections.

Because being a great conversationalist isn’t about talking more. It’s about connecting better.

Want to become a more confident communicator? Let’s connect! 🤍
Great conversations create great opportunities. ✨

Your ability to connect with others is one of the most valuable skills you can develop, both professionally and personally.

From initiating conversations with confidence to building rapport, asking better questions and connecting with different personalities, strong communication skills can open doors to meaningful relationships, greater collaboration and new career opportunities.

As an NLP Practitioner and Executive Presence Coach, I help professionals develop the confidence and communication skills to build stronger, more authentic connections.

Because being a great conversationalist isn’t about talking more. It’s about connecting better.

Want to become a more confident communicator? Let’s connect! 🤍
Great conversations create great opportunities. ✨

Your ability to connect with others is one of the most valuable skills you can develop, both professionally and personally.

From initiating conversations with confidence to building rapport, asking better questions and connecting with different personalities, strong communication skills can open doors to meaningful relationships, greater collaboration and new career opportunities.

As an NLP Practitioner and Executive Presence Coach, I help professionals develop the confidence and communication skills to build stronger, more authentic connections.

Because being a great conversationalist isn’t about talking more. It’s about connecting better.

Want to become a more confident communicator? Let’s connect! 🤍
Great conversations create great opportunities. ✨

Your ability to connect with others is one of the most valuable skills you can develop, both professionally and personally.

From initiating conversations with confidence to building rapport, asking better questions and connecting with different personalities, strong communication skills can open doors to meaningful relationships, greater collaboration and new career opportunities.

As an NLP Practitioner and Executive Presence Coach, I help professionals develop the confidence and communication skills to build stronger, more authentic connections.

Because being a great conversationalist isn’t about talking more. It’s about connecting better.

Want to become a more confident communicator? Let’s connect! 🤍
Great conversations create great opportunities. ✨

Your ability to connect with others is one of the most valuable skills you can develop, both professionally and personally.

From initiating conversations with confidence to building rapport, asking better questions and connecting with different personalities, strong communication skills can open doors to meaningful relationships, greater collaboration and new career opportunities.

As an NLP Practitioner and Executive Presence Coach, I help professionals develop the confidence and communication skills to build stronger, more authentic connections.

Because being a great conversationalist isn’t about talking more. It’s about connecting better.

Want to become a more confident communicator? Let’s connect! 🤍
Great conversations create great opportunities. ✨

Your ability to connect with others is one of the most valuable skills you can develop, both professionally and personally.

From initiating conversations with confidence to building rapport, asking better questions and connecting with different personalities, strong communication skills can open doors to meaningful relationships, greater collaboration and new career opportunities.

As an NLP Practitioner and Executive Presence Coach, I help professionals develop the confidence and communication skills to build stronger, more authentic connections.

Because being a great conversationalist isn’t about talking more. It’s about connecting better.

Want to become a more confident communicator? Let’s connect! 🤍
@aliya.rajah_
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Great conversations create great opportunities. ✨ Your ability to connect with others is one of the most valuable skills you can develop, both professionally and personally. From initiating conversations with confidence to building rapport, asking better questions and connecting with different personalities, strong communication skills can open doors to meaningful relationships, greater collaboration and new career opportunities. As an NLP Practitioner and Executive Presence Coach, I help professionals develop the confidence and communication skills to build stronger, more authentic connections. Because being a great conversationalist isn’t about talking more. It’s about connecting better. Want to become a more confident communicator? Let’s connect! 🤍
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Very much looking forward to delivering a workshop in Poland next month! The theme of this year’s IFES is ‘Futureproof Your Personal Toolbox,’ where I’ll be running a session for the next generation of exhibition professionals on how to become confident speakers 🎤 

After learning how to make pastéis de nata in Porto a couple of months ago I am very excited to learn how to make croissants 🥐 in Poznan as part of one of the networking sessions!😆
@aliya.rajah_
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Very much looking forward to delivering a workshop in Poland next month! The theme of this year’s IFES is ‘Futureproof Your Personal Toolbox,’ where I’ll be running a session for the next generation of exhibition professionals on how to become confident speakers 🎤 After learning how to make pastéis de nata in Porto a couple of months ago I am very excited to learn how to make croissants 🥐 in Poznan as part of one of the networking sessions!😆
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Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
Life lately🤍

The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams.

But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends.

I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀

If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
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Life lately🤍 The past few months have been quite challenging with all that’s been going on, but there was a big shift in energy in September, onboarding a lot more 1:1 coaching clients and signing on a couple of corporate clients to run virtual confidence + communication programmes for their teams. But alongside that there have been lots of fun times over the past few weeks with a gorgeous trip to Madrid, birthdays, @nooriyah._ which was just epic! Lots of dancing, pilates, baking, spa, nature walks and spending wholesome time with family and friends. I’ve been quite quiet on here but I plan on coming back and being more active 👀 If you have any questions or want to book a call, click on the link in my bio 💫
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What a time to be alive 😍the big shoulders and huge hair need to make a comeback ASAP xo
What a time to be alive 😍the big shoulders and huge hair need to make a comeback ASAP xo
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What a time to be alive 😍the big shoulders and huge hair need to make a comeback ASAP xo
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Confidence isn’t linear, it goes up and down throughout life.

You’ve been promoted, have more responsibilities, you’re expected to lead a team and be more visible - suddenly you’re out of your comfort zone.

You go through a break up or divorce and the life you pictured for yourself shifts - your identity feels different and you’re finding your feet again.

You’ve had a baby and feel rusty going back to work. Things that once felt natural now require more confidence.

This is all completely normal and the good thing about confidence is a skill, it’s a muscle. And just like a muscle, the more you practise using it by speaking up, putting yourself forward, doing things that stretch you - the stronger it becomes.

If your confidence isn’t where it used to be, it doesn’t mean you’ve lost it, it might just be time to start building it again.

If this resonates and you’d like to build your confidence - personally, professionally, or both, send me a message to book a call and explore how we can work together. 💫
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Confidence isn’t linear, it goes up and down throughout life. You’ve been promoted, have more responsibilities, you’re expected to lead a team and be more visible - suddenly you’re out of your comfort zone. You go through a break up or divorce and the life you pictured for yourself shifts - your identity feels different and you’re finding your feet again. You’ve had a baby and feel rusty going back to work. Things that once felt natural now require more confidence. This is all completely normal and the good thing about confidence is a skill, it’s a muscle. And just like a muscle, the more you practise using it by speaking up, putting yourself forward, doing things that stretch you - the stronger it becomes. If your confidence isn’t where it used to be, it doesn’t mean you’ve lost it, it might just be time to start building it again. If this resonates and you’d like to build your confidence - personally, professionally, or both, send me a message to book a call and explore how we can work together. 💫
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I thought it was time for a little re-introduction! 💫
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I thought it was time for a little re-introduction! 💫
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Question: do you wake up in the morning and the first thing you do is scroll through emails, messages and social media?

If so, you’re bombarding your brain with so much information before you’ve even had a chance to open your eyes properly and you’re now suddenly in reactive mode - responding to everything you’re seeing, reading and your mind is going into overdrive😫

Starting your day like this only results in you feeling much more anxious, distracted and on edge throughout the day.

If your mind constantly has 100 tabs open, it becomes a lot harder to be fully present and mindful. This then shows up in your ability to thinking clearly, communicate more concisely and feel calm and collected, all of which play a huge role in how confident you feel.

Giving yourself at least 10 minutes for yourself in the morning before you start responding to the rest of the world really changes the way you feel day to day. I also like to think of it as an act of self-love❤️ and doing lots of little things for yourself throughout the day that tell yourself ‘I am worth looking after’ is also a fun way to gradually build your confidence and self-esteem🙂
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Question: do you wake up in the morning and the first thing you do is scroll through emails, messages and social media? If so, you’re bombarding your brain with so much information before you’ve even had a chance to open your eyes properly and you’re now suddenly in reactive mode - responding to everything you’re seeing, reading and your mind is going into overdrive😫 Starting your day like this only results in you feeling much more anxious, distracted and on edge throughout the day. If your mind constantly has 100 tabs open, it becomes a lot harder to be fully present and mindful. This then shows up in your ability to thinking clearly, communicate more concisely and feel calm and collected, all of which play a huge role in how confident you feel. Giving yourself at least 10 minutes for yourself in the morning before you start responding to the rest of the world really changes the way you feel day to day. I also like to think of it as an act of self-love❤️ and doing lots of little things for yourself throughout the day that tell yourself ‘I am worth looking after’ is also a fun way to gradually build your confidence and self-esteem🙂
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